Maturing is not always all rainbows and butterflies. As a matter of fact, it can become a painful process during which you must let go of things you no longer need.
#1 Are you feeling isolated from others?
It seems like you have a growing need to spend time all by yourself and organize your thoughts.
#2 Is it time to end relationships that aren’t good for you?
You become aware of your self-worth and begin to decide who exactly should you let stay a part of your life. Who do you truly value?
#3 Are you more self-aware?
Being self-aware means that you’re finally paying attention to what’s around you. Having an attention span other than that of a goldfish can benefit you a lot on a long-term basis.
#4 Do you finally get what your internal issues are?
If you’re feeling a strong need to fix those internal issues, you might come to realize what you did wrong in the past. You want to improve yourself, whatever the cost. And the cost is the second faze – ending relationships.
#5 Coming to terms with your true self will make you sad – very often
You have that strange feeling of sadness and nostalgia, but the grieving process will heal you and help you grow.
#6 Are you regretting past mistakes?
Blaming yourself for hurting others is quite easy, but you won’t heal unless you choose forgiveness and accept that you truly are imperfect.
#7 You’re anxious about your future, you’re feeling lost and confused?
From the outside, you seem like you know exactly what you’re doing, but deep down you’re extremely nervous about the future.
You want to know what’s best for you and the only thing you can do about it is take things as they are, one day at a time.